I have been in a committed, monogamous relationship with a wonderful man since 2006. That's over a decade, folks. When people talk about long term relationships and marriages, they often say "don't forget to keep dating each other" or "keep things fresh" or "try new...
The Pros & Cons of Wearing Thongs
Thongs. No, I'm not talking about flip flops. I'm talking about the kind of underwear that Sisqo sang about in "Thong Song". (Woooow throwback, right there.) I'm talking about the kind of underwear with no back except for a small piece of material that nestles itself...
How to Lovingly Reveal Yourself
There's a shift happening. Can you feel it? It includes a level of transparency, of vulnerability, of revealing the truth. It started with things like reality TV and social media - which have backfired into a scripted reality and only sharing perfect images and what...
What to Wear Underneath Plunging Necklines
Updated: May 21, 2024 I can see it now: it's almost New Year's Eve (or a birthday, or girl's night out, or insert another fun, festive event) and you are looking for something hot to wear. And you think: "I would love to wear that top, but the neckline is way too...
Intimates Gifts for Everyone on Your List
There’s a funny ad from Fruit of the Loom (from 2014 and still making its rounds) about who you should and shouldn’t gift underwear to. I somewhat agree with the ad – you probably shouldn’t give a cop who pulls you over some packaged underwear. And, I also think...
5 Gifts to Give Your Body
Gift-giving time is here – hurray! Before you go getting and giving gifts to family members, friends, and colleagues, there’s someone else to consider first: your body. I say “someone” because I often encourage people to treat their bodies like their best friends....
Why 9 Bra Sizes All Fit
Note from Kimmay: This post was originally posted in 2016 and it is my most popular blogs that has led to an array of opportunities, so we made some slight updates in 2024. Enjoy! One of my least favorite questions I get as a bra fitter is: "Can you measure me? I just...
What to Wear Underneath Leggings and Tight Pants
I don't care what anyone says: I love to wear leggings. To yoga, to work, to run errands, with a sassy top - you name it. And luckily, now there are tight dress pants and slacks that feel just like leggings, only with a style upgrade. I've gotten quite a few questions...
Hurray for Four: Ways to Wear a Basic Strapless Bra
Your strapless bra is more than just a strapless, my dear. It never ceases to amaze me how many women don't know the power of a strapless bra and the multiple uses it can have in your wardrobe. Sure, a strapless bra may be made to be worn without straps, but there are...
How to Have a Heart-Lead Business (and Life!)
One of the reasons I love helping women say hurray with a bra fitting is because I know that it can help a woman stand stall, open and then lead with her heart. Living a heart lead life means living from a place of truth, compassion, and love. For your self and for...